The feeling you get when you know the person you want it to work out with is not worth your time anymore. Could it be worse? I've been dating this guy, Jordache, for about a year now. He's 26 this year, I know he's old but don't judge, studying at SMU doing accountancy. Yes he's smart but when it comes to commitment let's just say he lacks brains in that area. The typical girl might think that they're an item like boyfriend and girlfriend. But in a man's point of view the term 'dating' just simply means he's not in a committed relationship. This gives him the perfect excuse to talk to other girls and go out with them. How can a guy do that to a girl right? The feeling sucks when you find out from your friends and Facebook about him bringing different girls out on different occasions really makes you reconsider about men these days. Are they really that mean to do that to the girl that really loves them?  I'm afraid so. I hate wasting my time and effort on him. Thinking about how much he has hurt me time and time again makes me feel sick to my stomach.

I've come to realize that guys at that age are lost. They don't know what their identity is and what they want in life. I’ve always been telling him that this is the best time to be single and explore and yet I don’t understand why he’s with me. I told him numerous times he can go out with other people but I don’t want to be stringed along for the ride because it’s just emotionally draining on my part. I hate getting played by guys because I don’t deserve it despite me putting them first. Period.